ok arini mcm2 brite aq dpt..sedey,gembira,sakit....haihh..dunia2..ni baru arini...esok,lusa???haihhhh....
1. guys??do u really know about friendship,friends n enemy???tau x??...ok n again...aku nak post bende ni lg...n aku nak korg baca leklok....please....tq
Everybody need friends. People whom we can communicate with. But who can we consider as friends? friends whom we spend at the coffee shop? friends whom we work with? friends whom we hang out with? or our childhood fiends? there is no prejudice? no difference and no competition…until one day when we open up our eyes and realize that world is not seems. Its not a problem to make friends nowadays.. From cyber also easily we can make friends.True friends are hard to find, most of the time, people land up with wrong people, who are difficult to adjust with. With the increasing selfishness and cut throat competition between peers, it has become more difficult to find a person, who can be blindly trusted and looked upon in need. Also, with increasing interest of people in gossip and cheap plots, betrayal of friendship has become very common. One more reason because of which friendship these days do not bloom is self- engrossed nature of most of the people. Even worse are those cases, where betrayal of friendship is done for materialistic pleasures. Coping up with a broken friendship is quite hard, more so if you have no fault of yours. But, life goes on and you make new friends. You push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it.It may be easy to be friends with everyone, but it is hard to find friends who are really true to friendship and would stand by, during the hardships of life. Not everyone is blessed with true friends and if you have even one, consider yourself lucky. We search for certainties and direction for our future. We carry the burden and the bad experience which we want to live behind old stories which we want to forget. Hand the hopes to start the new life.Restricted ,controlled and trapped. We look for ways to escape from the crisis and the problem which follow us wherever we go. Space make us careless and forgetful. Forcing us to think. Burden us and free us suffocate and stifle us.Sometimes we forget that we should not talk just for the sake of talking. We should not listen just for the sake of listening. We need somebody to understand our problem.so we keep on searching with high hope. The person whom we have lost. Without realizing it, we actually had found someone to fill the emptiness and someone whom we can comfide in.When our world breakdown ,we learn to pick ourselves up. We eat,drink and waste our time as normally wedo.without realizing that things are changings around us.There must be desire and wish then the relationship will work. And in friendship there must be compatibility and sincerity then the friendship will last. And in getting to know each other there must be patience and understanding. Finally when we meet get to know each other when we are going in the same direction only time can determine the flow of our friendship.We realize that the journey to make us grow up is not an easy one. The relationship is getting more difficult. The body which work hard is getting tired and exhausted. The heart which will soften is hardened even more. And the loneliness in our heart makes us want to achieve happiness and perfection. We can only prepare ourselves and wait for the oppurtunities and seize back what we have lost……….
